My Story
Updated: Jul 22, 2024

For six years, I was the sole caregiver to my Mom, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. During that time, I faced immense emotional challenges and had to juggle efficiently coordinating her essential needs. Some days, I felt up for the challenge, but there were also days when fear and anxiety seemed overwhelming.
I realized that accepting my responsibilities was crucial; if I didn't, both my mom and I would be crushed under the weight of it all. Here are a few key strategies that helped me manage, which I hope can support you in your caregiving journey:
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings
Caregiving is filled with a range of emotions. It's important to recognize and accept these feelings. Ignoring them can lead to burnout. Don't be afraid to seek professional help or talk to someone about your emotions.
2. Educate Yourself
Understanding Alzheimer’s disease and its progression was a turning point for me. I began to seek education about the illness, which helped me feel more in control and less anxious. Knowledge is empowering and can alleviate some of the fear associated with the unknown.
3. Establish a Routine
Creating a structured routine was vital. I set up a calendar and devised a routine for every hour of the day. This not only provided stability for my mom but also helped me manage my time and reduce daily stress.
4. Leverage Resources from the Alzheimer’s Association
The Alzheimer’s Association was a godsend. They offer a wealth of resources, education, and even payment for respite care. Respite care allows caregivers to take a much-needed break, which is essential for maintaining your mental health.
5. Connect with Support Groups
The power of a support group cannot be overstated. Through these groups, I found other individuals who shared similar experiences, which made me realize I was not alone on this journey. Sharing experiences and advice with others in the same situation provided great comfort and practical tips.
Conclusion
Being a caregiver is one of the most challenging roles you can undertake, but it's also one of the most rewarding. Remember to acknowledge your feelings, seek education, establish a routine, use available resources, and connect with support groups. By taking these steps, you can manage the anxiety and fear that often accompanies caregiving, and ensure that you and your loved one have the best possible quality of life.
If you're looking for more in-depth guidance, I invite you to join my five-week course, where we will dive deeper into each of these strategies. Together, we'll explore practical tips, share experiences, and build a supportive community to help you navigate your caregiving journey with confidence and compassion.
Click here: https://www.tenacity4thejourney.com/confirmation-8230 to learn more and enroll in the course!
I look forward to supporting you on this journey.
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